Saturday, January 7, 2012

Differences

Saturday ..
Suffer day .. 

I Hate weekend !! I Hate holiday !! I Hate stay at home facing with those faces !! 
Why i cant just ran out from home ?! 

Everyday get SCOLD with No reason !! 
what for i do all of that ?! 
They don appreciate it !! 
STUPID Rachel Bong !!!! 

Friend ~ 
Yes, I know all of you treat me very good ! 
Yes, the problem is on me, myself ! 

To u : 
Yes, i know u r close to me ~ 
yes, i know you are just beside me whenever i need friend to accompany me ~ 
yes, i know you council me every time ~ 
but, i just not as brave as u can do whatever you want don care about your parents ~ 
I wish i can, but once i ran out from house, i wouldn't get back anymore !!
this is the different between ur family and my family !! 

I feel like a stupid that get you scold everyday, every time, with no reason ~
Do u feel that im really happy when im at home ? 

Do have someone willing listen to my stress ? my feeling ? 
Who cares ? No one ... 

If i had did any wrong, cant you just use a calm way to tell me , y must you shout and scold ?! 
izit it only way for you to release your stress ?!
Im not your puppet !! Im a human, who have feeling and fresh !! 

right also scold, wrong also scold ~ 
Im nt a STUPID !! 


Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

To feel better Martians go to their caves to solve problems alone.

To feel better Venusians get together and openly talk about their problems. 

* this are the different between men and women act when they face their stress and problems. 

For boy : 

a woman under stress is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself and being understood. 

woman, to forget her own painful feelings a woman may become emotionally involved in the problems of others. 

** just as a man is fulfilled through working out the intricate details of solving a problem, a woman is fulfilled through talking about the details of her problems. 

John Gray 

This make me understand more of his feeling why when he is stress of his problem, but i still keep on disturbing him and though he is not care of me ... 
but now as i understand, is it too late ? but at lease i know what is the problem ... 
This is how men and women cope their stress in different way ..

God Bless me and calm me down ~ <3 

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